So I just got introduced to the whole sub-culture of Alpha males, Beta Males, Omega Males, Sigmas volcel incel etc. This is popular on Reddit and other sites. It is an interesting if not cynical view of straight male hierarchy-usually in relation to dating women.
Apparently I am a volcel androphil which means I am a voluntarily celibate masculine male attracted to other males that refuses to play the “game” (male hierarchy politics).
Maybe exgays and Celibate Gays should be studied through the lens of sociology. We refuse to enter gay culture while holding on to traditional views of masculine and feminine roles. Since we can’t be the men we aspire to be we checkout of the “game” altogether and live our lives isolated.